Be a role model

When you are wearing your buddy t-shirt, you represent your educational institution. You are a role model for new students who will look up to you. This also applies in difficult situations. Take your role as a buddy seriously.

Be available

Do not take on more responsibility than you can handle. Be available for your group and other buddies.

Be prepared

Familiarise yourself with the programme for the Start of Studies and where new students can go for questions, so you can refer to the right place if you get questions you can't answer.

Attend events in groups. If an unfortunate incident occurs, you will be able to look after each other or call for help. Help students who are new to the city so that they do not get lost.

As a buddy, it is your job to include everyone. Remember to keep a close eye on anyone who is shy or keeps to themselves. Greeting them might help them to feel more secure.

Learn their names and use them. Take the initiative for icebreaker games that everyone can join. Bear in mind that many of the new students have come to their new educational institution on their own, and that they do not know anyone else.

The new students expect that, as a buddy, you will help them to get to know each other, the campus and the city they are going to study in.

New students have different wishes and expectations. Be open to input from your group and adapt the programme to their needs. Make sure you have other options for those who, for example, do not drink alcohol or eat meat.

Four out of five students think that parties are more fun if there is alcohol involved. At the same time, three out of five students think there is too much alcohol in the student community. Will another drink really make the event more fun?

The pleasure centres in the brain are most stimulated with a blood alcohol percentage of between 0.05 and 0.1. That corresponds to 2-3 glasses of wine or small beers for women and 3-4 for men. If you are drinking pints of beer, you will have reached your ‘optimal buzz’ when you start sipping your third pint.

You can keep track of your ‘optimal buzz’ at RUPissed? 

Tips for staying in control at parties

• Eat when you are drinking alcohol and do not drink on an empty stomach.
• Surf on the buzz from the drink you just had before you open a new one or buy more.
• Remember to drink water! An added bonus is less of a hangover.
• Do not down your beer when the group leaves for the next place. Just leave it.
• Look after your friends, check that they don't do anything stupid, and that they are safe.
• Stop drinking alcohol when you are having the most fun.

Respect other people’s decision not to drink alcohol. Prevent people from being pressured into drinking.

Sex

Sex is a natural part of being human, but it may be a good idea to take a few precautions before you have sex with someone. Use protection.

Consent

Forty per cent of all reported rapes take place at parties. Be on your best behaviour! Pay particularly close attention at parties and speak out if someone is losing control.

Sex without consent is rape. A person who is very intoxicated, who is asleep or is unconscious cannot consent to sex. If you are in doubt about whether someone has consented, ask and wait for an answer! If someone says no, they mean no. Rape and abuse are criminal offences.

Many new students are nervous about starting their studies. Adult life, a new educational institution, a new city, new accommodation and many new people can be overwhelming.

As a buddy, you must be a decent fellow human being. That means that you must be kind and talk to new students if you see that someone is struggling, but you are not supposed to be an amateur psychologist. If you see that someone needs more follow-up than you can give, suggest that they should to seek help.

Obtain an overview of the support services that are available at your educational institution, e.g. adviser, counsellor or Student Chaplain. The Student Welfare Organisation of Oslo and Akershus also offers health services.